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January 11th, 2018

Roxy chats with Stacy Krafczyk

Posted by teri in Uncategorized    

I knew Stacy was good after listening to the November Tripawd podcast. I made an appointment for January but then we got lucky and she had a cancellation! The call was even better than I expected and my expectations were high.

She started with Wallee, or rather Wallee was Wallee and butted in, said her piece and went on her way. Which is what she had to say – she does her own thing and is a superior hybrid being (cat/dog/human combo). She didn’t say anything about how annoying Roxy is – and I know that is what she thinks. Maybe it’s all part of the game? I didn’t get a chance to ask.

Roxy started out with a basic – she really (really, really) wants hamburger. I said we would see about the hamburger (somewhat a payday issue but I don’t/won’t buy hamburger for myself – too expensive). Roxy also said she wants to ride in the front seat of the car when we go out. I told her that was fine so long as she doesn’t interfere with my driving.

That’s as far as we got before Isa butted in and took over. Stacy just kept saying “wow” and “wow” again –  Isa is surrounded by an incredible amount of light and lots of rainbows and she has a “master teacher” energy.  Stacy confirmed Isa is/was my heart dog and she was with me for her to teach me about love (and many other things) as well as for her to take care of me.

[Granted, that is what all dogs are here to do for all of us. BUT! Isa saved me more than once. There was a time in my life when there was nothing good anywhere and masses of sub-optimum. I was daily struggling to find a reason to get out of bed. But the image of Isa racing back to me with big-ass smile (in spite of carrying her beloved pink rubber ball) made everything worthwhile in spite of any and all yuckiness. ]

According to Isa, I’ve had a tough life and am a tough cookie. Stacy said there is a solid cylinder of pink light connecting our hearts. She then described the “tattoo” Isa had made on my heart with her paw prints. Sounded an awful lot like a certain tattoo I have on my shoulder…

Stacy also described a man that was with Isa. From the description, it sounds like my paternal grandfather. A “sweet, reserved spirit” — they were together and both keeping an eye on me. Isa said I was “off” and should be drinking “green juices”. (I blame Christmas! I’ve been really good so far this year! I promise!)

Isa repeatedly said that I needed to let go of the guilt. That was a big part of my agenda with Stacy, to ask if Isa could forgive me. I have been struggling (understatement) to forgive myself and I thought that if I knew Isa could forgive me, maybe I could begin to forgive myself. If nothing else, I do feel much lighter – maybe I can begin to find a way now. Stacy said Isa is always here with me, always around, still teaching me (thank dog ) and is mothering Roxy.  I think Roxy and I can use all the help we can get.

Partway through, Stacy interrupted herself to say there was another cat with Isa and asked who it might be. Rodney has been at the Bridge for several years now and there’s no doubt it was him. He and Isa were certainly a pair – Isa was more or less scared to death of him. He told Stacy repeatedly that he was No. 1: he was my first cat and he “won me over.” Just kept on with “being number one.” He was my first tomcat but far from my first cat – there were four other cats living in the house when he moved himself in (this was pre-Isa). I did not have a vote on his moving in but, as he says, he won me over. Stacy laughed about his swagger, the epitome of who he is/was. It made me happy he poked his nose in to say hello.

Although Isa evidently had a lot to say, we did eventually circle back to Roxy. She wanted to know if this was her furever home, which I confirmed, with emphasis. Stacy said that while Roxy and I have been together six months (seven now!), to her it feels more like one. Which makes sense – that’s about how long its been since the adrenal support has kicked in and/or she’s started to relax. A little. Sort of. These things are relative. I have seen her confidence grow in the past couple of months.

I asked about Prince Charming next door. Roxy said he “smells funny” and that she prefers women. Pretty sure I had the latter figured out already. I asked about having a house sitter while I’m on vacation in February and she said so long it was a girl, we were okay. Let’s hope she sticks to that. My friend/house sitter came over last weekend for the first of several meet and greets. Roxy did eventually begin to relax with her and start to think about something other than the stranger danger in her house (FREAK OUT!). At the moment, I am far from optimistic that this will remotely work.

Roxy also complained about not getting enough exercise (guilty as charged). I suspect “enough” would be her running loose for three to five miles daily – and how many ways could that go horribly wrong? God knows, I can’t come close to keeping up with her and the term “loose leash” is a joke. Stacy suggested a couple of things that have been in my awareness but are as yet untested (a loaded pack for starters and I even have the pack. What is wrong with me?)

Out of the blue, Stacy said that we should move. I have no clue if that was her assessment after talking to me or if it came from somewhere else. I laughed and told her that was the plan, the house will go on the market when I get back from vacation and all fingers crossed for a quick sale. That was a nice reinforcement for me that moving is the right plan. I asked her to convey to Roxy that moving will be chaotic, I will be psychotic for the duration and she should be patient with me.

I wanted to know what Roxy liked best and she said “eating.” I tried for a secondary answer and the answer was “food”. I sense a trend here. So her weight will be something to keep an eye on – maybe, someday. She won’t always have this metabolism although her slowing down is hard to imagine right now.

So that was the call with Stacy. I highly recommend her not that she doesn’t already wear the Tripawds stamp of approval.

We went out the next day and I offered the front seat to Roxy. She freaked – a most emphatic “no”. She wanted nothing to do with the front seat. On reflection, I think that was actually Isa’s comment. She always rode in the front seat until she became a triapawd. There was no way I could haul her in and out of the front seat – the back seat was a challenge.

In other news, Roxy came down with a case of the zoomies one morning at the end of December. Top speed circles around the first floor, up the stairs turning around on the top step, never once hitting the top landing and back down again. She made at least four trips up and down the stairs and I don’t know how many circles around the ground floor. I swear she was laughing the entire time, and I laughed my ass off too – a great way to start the day. I do wish I knew what precipitated these “attacks”. I’d love to encourage them.

In case anyone is keeping score on the Roxy destruction inventory, the toaster met its demise last week. The good news is that thing was a cheap piece of such-and-such and I am thrilled it must now be replaced.

and last night I came home to a broken (glass) flour canister with remarkably little flour remaining on the floor. What flour remained had been magically transformed to glue with dog slobber. The Roxinator was a little put out that her dinner had to wait until I had the mess (mostly) cleaned up.

and I will leave you with the cutest picture ever (IMHO):

The monkey was a highly successful Christmas present for Roxy – believe me I do not bring it to bed with us – and it frequently joins us.

Happy New Year everyone – however late!




  1. I was planning on scheduling an appointment with Stacy. It is just hard to do with my job. I will definitely have to look into it more.
    I am glad she gave you some answers.

    Sounds like the move is a good thing then.
    keep on working with that Roxy. 🙂 You are doing a good job

    Michelle & Angel Sassy

      Michelle — January 11, 2018 @ 11:31 pm   Reply

    • Scheduling was tricky for me too – originally it was for a Monday at lunch time – awkward but doable. Then she had a cancellation for a Saturday that I never saw as an option initially. So maybe send an email and see what she says. Never hurts to ask.

        teri — January 12, 2018 @ 4:31 pm   Reply

  2. Thanks for writing this. I’ve gone back and forth about scheduling an appointment since the Tripawds call. I think I”m going to go ahead and schedule one with her.

      Rocky's dad — January 12, 2018 @ 3:56 pm   Reply

    • I scheduled the call mostly in an attempt to corral any and all help I could with Roxy’s *ahem* issues. The connection I got with Isa was priceless, another (badly needed) step in healing.

        teri — January 12, 2018 @ 4:28 pm   Reply

  3. This is absolutely fascinating!! I see why you tole me earlier you would post when you had time tomprocess everything. Goodness knows there was a lot to process.

    We all know you k ow Isa so well. Obviously she knows you very well too! Perhaps even better than you know yourself!! It’s as though she’s been “with you” on a “Soul level” since you were vorn…And maybe even before that!! 🙂

    Add to all this magical connection, the Roxy factor!! 🙂 🙂 Had Isa not sent you a dawg with ….er….er….”issues”, you probably wouldn’t have made this call! Isa is connecting with you thru Roxy’s…er….yeah, “issues”!

    At least Roxy gets hamburger out of all this, and a toaster cord!!! I love that FOOD kept popping up for her! I can see where exercise would DEFINITELY be on her wish list.

    And the fact that making a move was validated by Isa through Stacy…..WOW!!

    Identifying Rodney and his swagger….Isa telling you get over the guilt and do it now……the solid cylinder of pink light connecting your hearts…..your Granddad there with Isa…..HOLY SMOKES!!! A WHOLE LOTTA’ GOOD S**T IN THAT CALL! And the call apparently was a direct connection to the Bridge!!

    Thanks so much for taking the time to chronicle all this. It really is fascinating!

    And we got the extra bonus of that precious picture of Roxy!, her monky and Wallee. Such a cutie!! Looks like all three are gettw along just fine.

    Love and light and hugs dear friend

    Sally and Alumni Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle and Frankie too!

      benny55 — January 12, 2018 @ 6:58 pm   Reply

  4. Teri, we’re so glad that Stacy met your expectations and then some! Thank you for sharing so many details, it’s wonderful that she was able to get so much put into perspective for you. Yep, she’s a gift.

    About that toaster …haha Roxy was just trying to help you along and get you to replace it! Smart girl.

    I love that she gets along with the kitty. That is something we just can’t imagine for Wyatt. She’s a pretty awesome doggie underneath all the craziness!

    Happy new year to you as well. May 2018 bring you all the love and joy that you so deserve.

      jerry — January 15, 2018 @ 11:46 pm   Reply

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